Obedience

Mercy, Not Sacrifice

Why God refuses sacrifice when it becomes an excuse not to obey, and what that means for our service at church and the care of our family.

By Ariel Zimbrão13 min read

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Part of: Studies

Base texts: Hosea 6:6; 1 Samuel 15:22 (read in ESV) | Supporting texts: Micah 6:8; Matthew 9:13; 12:7; Mark 7:9-13; Romans 10:2; Ephesians 5:25; 1 Peter 3:7; Hebrews 10:5-7,25

There is a contrast at the very heart of the Bible, the kind that ought to stop us. The same God who commanded sacrifices, who spelled out in fine detail how the altar should be built and what to do with the blood of the offering, is the one who then tells his own people that he does not want them:

"For I desire steadfast love and not sacrifice, the knowledge of God rather than burnt offerings." (Hosea 6:6, ESV)

Before Hosea, it was Samuel who said:

"Has the Lord as great delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices, as in obeying the voice of the Lord? Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, and to listen than the fat of rams." (1 Samuel 15:22, ESV)

How can God refuse the very thing he himself commanded? The answer uncovers one of the most common self-deceptions of the religious heart. It is not that God changed his mind about worship. He always knew how to separate the form of religion from what that form was meant to express. And when the form becomes a way to escape obedience, he refuses it.


Saul and the sacrifice that was disobedience

Saul's case shows this clearly. God had commanded the complete destruction of the Amalekites, and Saul obeyed only halfway. He spared King Agag and the best of the livestock. When it came time to explain, the people came up with an excuse that looked pious:

"They have brought them from the Amalekites, for the people spared the best of the sheep and of the oxen to sacrifice to the Lord your God, and the rest we have devoted to destruction." (1 Samuel 15:15, ESV)

It was a religious excuse for real disobedience. And notice how Samuel responds. He does not treat Saul's sacrifice as a slightly lesser good, a bit of zeal out of season. He calls it sin:

"For rebellion is as the sin of divination, and presumption is as iniquity and idolatry. Because you have rejected the word of the Lord, he has also rejected you from being king." (1 Samuel 15:23, ESV)

Notice where Samuel places Saul's worship: in the same category as divination and idolatry. A sacrifice offered precisely so as not to obey goes well beyond lukewarm worship; it is disobedience dressed up in worship's clothes. What is born from the refusal to obey him, God will not receive as an offering. In that moment, the altar had become a hiding place.


Hosea and the loyalty God is looking for

Hosea applies the same diagnosis, now to an entire nation. Israel had not abandoned the temple: it kept the rites and multiplied the offerings, holding the facade of religion up. And even so, God says that he desires steadfast love and not sacrifice (Hosea 6:6).

The word translated "steadfast love" there is stronger than a feeling. It speaks of loyalty, of the love that stays and keeps the covenant, the faithfulness God has toward his people and expects to see in return. Israel's problem never lay in a lack of religious activity. The problem was worship without loyalty: hands busy at the altar, and a heart that did not walk with God or treat its neighbor faithfully. Micah says the same thing in other words:

"He has told you, O man, what is good; and what does the Lord require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?" (Micah 6:8, ESV)

A rite that rises to heaven with hands empty of obedience is not accepted by God.


Jesus and the Corban trick

When Jesus arrives, he finds this same self-deception, only now turned into a system. Twice he quotes Hosea to confront the Pharisees, people whose whole lives revolved around religious precision and who, for that very reason, condemned the hungry and despised sinners in the name of purity:

"Go and learn what this means: 'I desire mercy, and not sacrifice.' For I came not to call the righteous, but sinners." (Matthew 9:13, ESV)
"And if you had known what this means, 'I desire mercy, and not sacrifice,' you would not have condemned the guiltless." (Matthew 12:7, ESV)

The strongest example is Corban. The Law commanded honoring father and mother, and that included supporting them in old age. But someone had found a loophole: you only had to declare your own goods dedicated to God, and just like that the child was freed from helping his aging parents. The religious consecration of goods became a shield against a hard duty. Jesus does not mince words:

"And he said to them, 'You have a fine way of rejecting the commandment of God in order to establish your tradition! For Moses said, "Honor your father and your mother"; and, "Whoever reviles father or mother must surely die." But you say, "If a man tells his father or his mother, 'Whatever you would have gained from me is Corban'" (that is, given to God)—then you no longer permit him to do anything for his father or mother, thus making void the word of God by your tradition that you have handed down. And many such things you do.'" (Mark 7:9-13, ESV)

It is the same mechanism as Saul's, only now organized into a rule. A religious act, dedicating goods to God, put to work as an excuse to escape a costlier obedience, which was caring for one's own parents. It had the look of devotion, but it was disobedience.


The mechanism behind it all

Once you learn to recognize this pattern, you start to see it everywhere, including in yourself. It works like this. Faced with an obedience that is hard and costly, the kind no one sees or praises, the heart switches tasks. Instead of doing what God asked, it does some other religious thing and walks away feeling it has done its duty.

Saul left off obeying and sacrificed instead. The Pharisees, rather than support their parents, consecrated goods. In both cases, the religious activity took the place of obedience instead of expressing it. And the damage went further still: it served as an anesthetic for the conscience, letting the disobedient feel zealous.

That is why Paul could say of Israel:

"For I bear them witness that they have a zeal for God, but not according to knowledge." (Romans 10:2, ESV)

The amount of religious effort is not what measures faithfulness. Sometimes all that religious busyness is precisely the sign that we are running away. We multiply sacrifices because, deep down, we do not want to obey.


From the altar to our service

Here we need to make a connection, because sacrifice in the Old Testament carried more than one meaning, and it is easy to confuse the two.

One meaning pointed forward, to Christ. The blood of the animal covered sin and already announced the cross. That meaning Jesus fulfilled and closed once and for all, and it is not the one we are talking about here. No service of ours today replaces the work of the cross. Nor does it need to.

But the sacrifice also had a second meaning, and that is the one that concerns us here. It was an act of worship and of work for God, something a person brought and offered with their own hands and at their own cost. It cost an animal and it cost time, not to mention the climb up to the temple. It was the visible part of religion, the service rendered to God.

It is this second meaning that is still alive among us, only wearing different clothes. Today it shows up in our service at church: the rosters, the ministries and the projects, the hours of volunteer work, the faithful presence at every meeting. It is what we do for God and what we bring to him, the visible side of our devotion. And all of it is good. God is pleased with it when it comes from a heart that also obeys.

Here is the point, exactly. Just as Saul's sacrifice could become an excuse not to obey, our service runs the same risk. It is good in itself, but it ends up put in the wrong place. When we trade the hard obedience for the religious activity that everyone can see, we are repeating Saul's mistake, only now with a volunteer's badge in place of the priest's knife.


Every area of life is holy ground

Before applying this, we need to undo a false division. We tend to imagine that there are "sacred" areas of life, like the church and worship, and "ordinary" areas, like marriage, work, and the care of the home and of aging parents. And we assume, without ever saying it out loud, that God cares more about the first ones.

The Bible knows no such division. The home is holy ground, work is holy ground too, and life in community is no different. God reigns over all these areas with the same authority, and obeying him in the bedroom, in the workshop, or beside the bed of an aging parent is no less spiritual than serving him at the temple. None of these areas is worth more than another.

What does exist is an order among duties when they seem to collide with each other. And here we need to be exact. If, in order to fulfill one thing in one area, I have to disobey God in another, then there is a conflict there, and a wrong choice somewhere. God does not contradict himself. He will not command me at the altar to do what breaks his commandment at home. When I feel that serving him here forces me to sin there, one of the two "duties" is not what I imagine it to be. Either it is not really a duty, or it is out of place in the line of my obligations.


When serving becomes an escape

Think of a dedicated Christian couple. They serve at church almost every day, in rosters, meetings, and ministries. And in the middle of all that activity, the marriage is slowly drying up. They no longer look at each other, and the talking and the caring have both gone. The prayer of one for the other died long ago. If you ask them, they will say they are serving the Lord. But the Bible is clear about the husband's duty:

"Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her." (Ephesians 5:25, ESV)
"Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered." (1 Peter 3:7, ESV)

If service at church is devouring the marriage, that couple may be closer to Saul's mistake than to real obedience. And the obedience God asks for may be, at that very moment, invisible and even frowned upon. Sometimes it means skipping a serving slot to care for your spouse, or staying home on a meeting night to rebuild a conversation that had died. No one will applaud, and there will be no photo. But the command to care for your own family comes first, in the order of duties, before the service we chose to take on.

The same holds for the aging parents who keep waiting for a care that never comes because we are "busy in the work." And it holds for the job done carelessly while the calendar overflows with religious commitments. The test is always Samuel's: is this religious activity leading me to obey God more in every area, or is it serving as my escape from a harder obedience?


A necessary caution

We must also say, with that same clarity, what this principle is not. It is not permission for spiritual laziness disguised as "balance." The complacency that settles in and starts calling its own comfort wisdom would find a perfect excuse here, if we read the text wrongly.

God commands us to be part of a community and to be committed members of it. We were not made for a solitary faith, and abandoning the congregation is no higher obedience at all. It is disobedience of another kind:

"Not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near." (Hebrews 10:25, ESV)

So it is worth separating two things clearly. One of them is the service we choose to take on, such as rosters, projects, and roles, which is good but not obligatory in the same measure. The other is public worship, which we are called never to forsake. Missing a church work meeting to rescue a marriage is one thing; abandoning the fellowship of the saints is quite another.

The error was never in the service itself. It was in using it as an excuse to break a clear commandment. Life in the church, rather than pushing us into disobedience and sin in the other areas, has to lead us to live more holy lives in all of them. The same grace that makes me faithful in worship makes me faithful at home too, at work, and toward those who depend on me. When faithfulness in one area produces unfaithfulness in another, it has stopped being faithfulness. It is Saul's old deception in new clothes.


The obedience that saved the world

The hardest question of all still remains. And when we fail? Because fail we do. All of us, in one way or another, have already offered God the sacrifice of activity in place of the obedience of the heart. If the standard by which we will be judged is perfect obedience in every area, then we are lost.

This is exactly where everything we have seen finds its rest in Christ. The author of Hebrews puts on the lips of Jesus, at the moment he comes into the world, words that sum up the whole message:

"Consequently, when Christ came into the world, he said, 'Sacrifices and offerings you have not desired, but a body have you prepared for me; in burnt offerings and sin offerings you have taken no pleasure. Then I said, "Behold, I have come to do your will, O God, as it is written of me in the scroll of the book."'" (Hebrews 10:5-7, ESV)

Christ is the only one who obeyed completely, in every area, without ever once using religion to escape a duty. And his obedience was far more than an example: it was substitution. He obeyed in the place of the disobedient and offered himself, closing the sacrificial system by giving the one thing God always wanted, a life entirely surrendered to the will of the Father.

That is why the obedience we are called to never works as the price of our acceptance; it is the fruit of it. We do not obey in order to be loved. We obey because, in Christ, we already are. And it is that security that frees us from the religious theater. Whoever has already been accepted through another's obedience no longer needs to manufacture sacrifices to impress God or to silence his own conscience. He can, at last, do the hard and hidden thing, in the exact place where God commanded it. Because by then it has stopped being fear. It has become worship.

Mercy is what he wants, and obedience is what he asks. And both he himself has already given us, first, in his Son.

Ariel Zimbrão

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